Relationships they say can be tedious and dull sometimes especially when couples lose interest in each other.
There has been a lot of desertion in relationships because of dullness.
According to Onlinedivorce.com, in 2019, there have been almost four thousand divorces, which statistically means the divorce rate in Ghana as of 2019 was around 10% average.
If your relationship is on the verge of collapsing, here are some tips to spice your boring relationship.
1. Try speaking your partner’s love language
Knowing your partner’s love language is a fundamental ingredient in a relationship, you can love someone with every fiber in your body but if you are unable to convey that love message or language in a way they can understand, they’ll never truly feel loved.
Indeed, everyone sees love in a different way, so understanding your partner’s love language alone can help spice up your relationship, you can try that by showering him or her with a gift if only your partner is the type who loves gifts.
2. Do new things together
Doing fresh things together, as a couple, will spice the love that exists between you.
These activities include everything from trying new restaurants, taking up a new hobby, or traveling to a destination you have never been together.
You can also try a new position or location to your sex life this also counts in spicing your relationship.
3. Be Consistent in your relationship
As the saying goes “Don’t start anything you are not willing to maintain”. At the beginning of every relationship, there were dates, flowers, appreciation, sweet gestures, interesting conversations, and messages.
You mostly likely touched a lot more. I will advise you to bring back those early relationship days by making time for romantic gestures, daily.
And if you find that you don’t know what to do, don’t be afraid to ask your partner what they need and want.
4. Don’t forget Date Night
Maybe you’ve noticed that your schedules are so hectic these days that there’s hardly even time to have time for yourself. Just as you make time for important meetings at work, find time out of your busy schedules and organize a date night for both of you.
5. Introduce touch to each other
Don’t underestimate the power of touch in a relationship, if you are not an affectionate couple, you can introduce touches in your relationship to spice it up by kissing, hugging, cuddling, and massing each other.
6. Learn how to appreciate each other
Appreciation is also a key factor to spice up a boring relationship, you can show appreciation by acknowledging gifts provided by your lover.
Yeah, as couples there be so many flaws and what have you, but you shouldn’t let that be a factor which should end a relationship built for many years.
Author: Henry Mensah | universnewsroom.com